1) How you met:
Your best friend set you up.
You were fixed up by a colleague at work.
You met him at the supermarket, bus stop, or mall and just hit it off.
You met him online in a chat room.
You met him through a dating service.

2) On the first date he greeted you with:
A thoughtful reasonably priced gift.
A generic gift like flowers or candy.
An extravagent or over-priced gift.
An inappropriate gift.
No gift at all.

3) After your first date:
He called you three or more times the next day.
He emailed you and said what a good time he had.
You called or emailed him.
He called you or even sent you flowers.
He waited three or more days to contact you.

4) When you go out:
One of you tends to be the talker and one the listener, but it feels comfortable for you.
He tends to monopolize the conversations.
You have conversations where you participate equally.
There are uncomfortable periods of silence.
He appears to day dream when you talk.

5) On your birthday:
He asks you want you want to do.
He arranges something special for you in advance.
He forgets and you have to remind him but he then gets with the program.
You remind him but he says he’s sorry but has other plans.
He gets you a present, but it's not very thoughtful.

6) When it comes to meeting your parents:
He agrees to go their house but cancels at the last minute.
He says no way flat out.
He reluctantly goes.
He agrees to go but insists on bringing his buddy.
It’s his idea - he wants to know more about you.

7) About sex:
He expresses his needs, but isn't really concerned with yours.
He expresses his needs and is concerned about yours.
He is concerned about your needs but is secretive about his own.
He does not make you feel comfortable about expressing your needs.
Sex is not a big part of your relationship.

8) His friends:
Are nice but not your type.
Are polite but not that warm to you.
Are really cool people and welcome you into their crowd.
Are fun but in reasonable doses.
Either you haven’t met his friends or he just doesn’t have any.

9) Spending time together:
You spend almost all your free time together and enjoy being together.
He wants to spend more time with you than you do with him.
He accuses you of being too smothering or needy.
You have a happy balance and both have other friends and outside interests.
Sometimes he wants to see you when you don’t want to see him and vise versa.

10) The thing you like best about him:
The way he looks ­ he’s really cute.
His sense of humor ­ he makes you laugh.
The way you feel when you around him ­ you feel comfortable and safe.
His bank account ­ he’s well off and can provide you with many material things.
His mind ­ you feel stimulated around him.